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Jennifer Lopez<\/strong><\/a>‘s love don’t cost a thing, but a man must be willing to put in the work to get her attention.<\/p>\n

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The Office Romance<\/em><\/a> star, 56, was quizzed about her love life during a Monday, June 8, appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen<\/em><\/a>, revealing that she isn’t one for social media communication.<\/p>\n

“Do you check your DMs, Jennifer?” host Andy Cohen<\/strong> asked her, to which Lopez emphatically replied, “No.”<\/p>\n

Cohen, 58, pressed further, “What if some amazing Spanish soccer player DMs you?”<\/p>\n

“I think they would be able to find me, no? If you really wanted to find me, you could find me,” Lopez shared.<\/p>\n

Cohen responded, “[But] not through Instagram\u2026”<\/p>\n

Lopez said, “You’re not going to find me through Instagram or sliding into my DMs. You have to make more of an effort than that.”<\/p>\n

The “Dance Again” singer has been single since her split from ex-husband Ben Affleck<\/strong><\/a> in 2024. The couple’s whirlwind romance first began in 2002 when they met on the set of the movie Gigli<\/em>. They quickly got engaged but called off their September 2003 wedding just days before it was set to take place and eventually split up in January 2004.<\/p>\n

Fast forward to 2021 and the exes reunited, marrying in Las Vegas in July 2022, followed by an intimate ceremony in Georgia in August that year.<\/p>\n

Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck, 53, in August 2024, and the marriage was officially dissolved in January 2025.<\/p>\n

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During a May appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live!<\/em>, Lopez said she was happy flying solo<\/a> for the time being.<\/p>\n

“You’re single right now,” host Jimmy Kimmel noted, prompting Lopez to reply, “I am. I should have done it sooner! I’ve been doing it all wrong. Trust me.”<\/p>\n

“I’m not doing anything to ruin how I feel right now. It’s fantastic. I love it,” she said of being single.<\/p>\n

In March, the actress and singer reflected on her split from Affleck<\/a> during an appearance on Good Morning America<\/em>.<\/p>\n

“I took a year off,” Lopez said, explaining that she had to “stop everything” after the separation. “I canceled tours. I decided to just be home and sit in what had happened without running away from it through work, through another person, through anything. Just sit.”<\/p>\n

“I was just at a point where I was like, \u2018What is going on with you?'” she continued. “I couldn’t blame anybody else because I don’t think that’s where the lesson is. And so, I really needed to figure myself out.”<\/p>\n

Lopez added, “I feel like for the first time in my life, I’m free. I’m on my own. It feels really good. I didn’t really know what that felt like since I was in my early 20s, and even before that I always had a boyfriend. There was always someone in my life and so many other things that I felt were out of my control. I’ve gotten to the point where I really trust myself and appreciate myself a little bit more.”<\/p>\n

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This story was originally published June 9, 2026 at 6:18 AM.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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